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Thursday, May 31, 2012

Everybody has a Story: My Journey-Incidents Part 3

Many childhood incidents encouraged spiritual sensitivity and awareness of God's protection.

How stimulating were the romps on trails and hillsides in Mexico.  I had a rather free, eager, venturesome life and enjoyed the outdoors.  Staying in doors was torturous and positively unpleasant unless it was raining.  On one of those drizzling days (I was about 10), I foolishly ignored my mothers warning to stay indoors and had better plans.               I was always fascinated by these "bush trees" with pretty shiny leaves.  They had hollow branches.  I got this idea that if we cut some of those branches, we could make them into flutes.  So sneaked out of the house, grabbing a sharp machete on the way out and proceeded down a wet, slippery slope where one of those trees stood.  Just before I got to the tree, I slipped and fell, the machete fell across three fingers of my right hand, slicing each one.  This incident occurred about a day I was to begin school.  I had to do most of my school work orally which was very unpleasant.                      One day, I found myself hopelessly lost in the vast rainforest -like property that surrounded the home we were staying at while attending school.(I was about 8 or so).  My friends and I had set out for a brief walk.  I willfully ignored an older friend in charge and set off in another direction, thinking it was a short cut back to the house.  I eventually found my way back, scared, sober, relieved, however, afraid of the consequences of my behavior, I hid under the bed, not telling anyone I was safely back.                  Another day, I was allowed, with no supervision to use the stove and oven to bake a cake. (I was around 10)   The stove was run on butane gas tanks that were parked outside in the back.  It did not have a lighter so to turn the burners or oven on, one had to light a match to get it lit.  On that occasion, I thought I had lit the burner in the oven. The oven was not getting hot so I opened the oven door, smelled a little gas but in my foolishness I did not wait to relight before all the gas had been cleared.  So I lit another match and all the dust bunnies under the stove and gas exploded, singing all the hairs on my face, hands, and arms.  The back of my fingers were burned.            Looking back on these memories, I see the protection that God provided.

Cultivating Joy

Cultivating Joy

PAST MEMORIES TO TREASURE

A perfect day in the nursery.

   Listening to the Bible story.    
Girl with an attitude.

Coloring time.

Singing, "If Your Happy And You Know It, then your face will surely show it."

Not so happy twins.



Story time, "Creation".

Singing and praising God.

Enjoying "COOKIE TIME'
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Monday, May 28, 2012

He Giveth More Grace > Lyrics | Annie J. Flint

He Giveth More Grace > Lyrics | Annie J. Flint

Is Drug-Driven Medical Care Sacrificing People’s Lives?

Is Drug-Driven Medical Care Sacrificing People’s Lives?

The Dinette Set by Julie Larson on Creators.com - A Syndicate Of Talent

The Dinette Set by Julie Larson on Creators.com - A Syndicate Of Talent   zoom IN if you can't read the small print.    The beauty of computers.

AGING WITH AN ATTITUDE, ha,ha

Flo and Friends by Jenny Campbell on Creators.com - A Syndicate Of Talent

Ben Comic Strip, May 19, 2012 on GoComics.com

Ben Comic Strip, May 19, 2012 on GoComics.com

Ballard Street Comic Strip, May 25, 2012 on GoComics.com

Ballard Street Comic Strip, May 25, 2012 on GoComics.com  Enjoy the present, savor the moment and COUNT IT ALL JOY.

Sunday, May 27, 2012

ANOTHER LIST WITH SOME MORE ACTIVITY IDEAS AND SOME OF THE SAME

http://www.bethanyhof.org/forms/Training_article_101_Things.pdf

101 Things to Do With a Person With Alzheimer's Disease

101 Things to Do With a Person With Alzheimer's Disease

CHANGES: WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE TO HAVE ALZHEIMER'S?

"...the devastation of losing self-confidence, parts of the old independent personality, memory,pride as I became a care receiver instead of a care giver, and the ability to control some of my physical functions.  The worst personal loss was the spiritual change that came to me....Perhaps the first spiritual change I noticed was FEAR.  I have never really known fear before.  At night when it is total blackness, these absurd fears come.  The comforting memories can't be reached.  The mind-sustaining Bible verses are gone.  The old emotions are gone as new, uncontrolled, fearful emotions sweep in to replace them.  The sweetness of prayer and the gentle comfort of the Holy Spirit are gone.   I am alone in the blackness.."  As I completed reading MY JOURNEY INTO ALZHEIMER'S DISEASE by Robert Davis, needless to say, I was moved to tears and regret that I had and have not been as patient with those whom I have cared for.  When one does not and can't feel the love of God because of a malfunctioning brain then I can understand now why TOUCH IS SO IMPORTANT  in our care for them.  What more can I say.  I very highly recommend this book.  It will totally change your perspective.


Truths That Hold Us Steady

"As soon as trouble hits our lives, the lights start flashing and everybody starts watching us."  By Joe Stowell

http://web001.rbc.org/pdf/discovery-series/anchors-in-the-storm.pdf

I Have Been Young: My Second Favorite Book

I Have Been Young: My Second Favorite Book: My Journey Into Alzheimer's Disease by Robert Davis - A REVIEW I don't even know where to start.  I have underlined so much of this boo...

Caregiving: A Cause for Christ by Ken Tada | Reformed Theology Articles at Ligonier.org

Caregiving: A Cause for Christ by Ken Tada | Reformed Theology Articles at Ligonier.org

Take Refuge | What's Going On Here? For Care givers too. Thank's

Take Refuge | What's Going On Here?   Not just for MOM's but for CARE GIVERS!

Saturday, May 26, 2012

TEN ABSOLUTES FOR CAREGIVERS


  1. Never argue, instead agree.  2. Never reason, instead divert. 3. Never shame, instead distract.  4. Never lecture, instead reassure.  5.  Never say "remember", instead reminisce.  6.  Never say "I told you so.", instead repeat- regroup.  7. Never say "You can't", say "Let's do this.."  8. Never command or demand,  instead ask or model.  9. Never condescend, instead encourage and praise.  10. Never force, instead reinforce.      This has been passed on from one care giver to another so I have no clue where it originated.

Sleuthing Troublesome Alzheimer’s Behaviors

Sleuthing Troublesome Alzheimer’s Behaviors                         

Alzheimer's - Enhancing Nutrition in Late-Stage Alzheimer's Disease


Alzheimer's - Enhancing Nutrition in Late-Stage Alzheimer's Disease  Try serving meals on brightly colored dishes to provide a visual contrast making it easier to find food.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Everyday care - Alzheimer's Society

Everyday care - Alzheimer's Society  This is a very good site for reference, especially to those who are just starting out on this confusing saga, journey, or adventures as I like to call them.  Of course much is also trial and error as every situation is different.

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

My mother, and other dementia patients, could still enjoy quality of life | al.com

My mother, and other dementia patients, could still enjoy quality of life | al.com        SMILE, TOUCH, THEY STILL RESPOND TO GENTLE TOUCHES AND GENTLE VOICES.  "A friend knows the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails." Donna Roberts.

Friday, May 11, 2012

ENDuring HARDness

Cultivating JoyPeriodically, I must remind myself about this enduring and hardness bit.   Oh, how it can test my character and I am not inclined one bit as it interferes with my wild inclinations which are sometimes so difficult to keep in check.  I am periodically reminded of this article, I read years ago and keep in my Bible as a constant reminder that my employment with God to endure hardness as a good soldier is not over yet.   "ENDURING means persisting in what we are called to do when our course becomes unbearable; when duty and responsibility thrust us into circumstances that threaten our safety, deprive us of comfort, control or the seeming necessities of life; circumstances that seem to profit us nothing, but will move us toward the mark of simple obedience for Jesus' sake.            HARDNESS is not glamours and never appealing.  Hardness may be demeaning, discouraging, or exhausting, but not necessarily rewarding-at least, not in the foreseeable future.  Hardness is usually unpleasantness of some kind, something we would not choose if it were left up to us to decide.             Enduring means to continue over a long period of time, to hang in there simply because we believe that when we began a course it was the will of God, and WE ARE NOT AUTHORIZED TO QUIT."  --Dick York, Shield of Faith Mission         HOW LONG?    IT SEEMS SO LONG LORD.   YOU MEAN I MUST ENDURE UNTIL THE END OF YOUR PROJECT?  II Tim. 2:3,4 Yes, Becky until the end.  I am using your circumstances to fashion in you the image of His Son.    BBuuut!    NO BUT'S!    

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

A Rare Form of Dementia Tests a Vow of ‘for Better, for Worse’ - NYTimes.com

A Rare Form of Dementia Tests a Vow of ‘for Better, for Worse’ - NYTimes.com

Everybody has a Story, My Journey Part 2

I have always marveled over past events that have led up to my present status.  What at present was perceived as unfortunate have made me what I at present am and my journey continues.  "Each of us may be sure that if God sends us on stony paths He will provide us with strong shoes, and He does not send us out on any journey for which He does not equip us well." --Alexander Madaren.   God allowed or thrust me out of the nest what I perceived as prematurely but God provided me with strong shoes, God's Word and a Godly grade school teacher.  He, however, did not thrust me out in sandals, slip-flops, or high heels.  He sent me out with "The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding" and with "My presence will go with you...Ex.33:14.  He sent me out with a two-edged sword.  He sent me out with the source of all comfort as a merciful father,Cor.1:3.   Many times, multiplied, sometimes gladly, other times with a touch of sadness and often with profound sadness alone and unattended or accompanied to undertake yet another year of school away from my parents.   I began that part of my journey with the few memories of my first year of school in 1955.  As a six-year-old, blond-haired, I started on a 22-hour trip, with my father, to school in our Willy Jeep.  This was in September when Hurricanes Hilda and Janet were causing havoc along the Golf Coast of the Republic of Mexico (My parents were missionaries.)  Flooded rivers delayed our travels and my father left me with another missionary family to continue that trip to my first day of school.  About six weeks later, I arrived via airplane to our destination.  There were no telephones and the telegraph lines were down.  We landed in a "cow-pasture" airstrip with no one to meet us.  My first day of school began in October, in a one-room school room with five other students.   We learned to read about Dick and Jane and Baby Sally and finished the year in June.